EVENT REMINDER: Max is teaching a bondage workshop this Sunday afternoon. Here's the 411 on that...The Tender Bits - Male and Female Genital BondageThe class is Sunday January 4th, 2:30 PM to 5:30 PM, at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in Seattle.This workshop covers some particularly intimate, effective and sexy bondage techniques. Max will start with the basics of immobilizing and tormenting boy-bits. There'll be a nice demo, informa...

Wow, it's 2009 - first post for the new year. Max and I and number of our closest friends saw the old year out at our house. We missed a few pals who had to be elsewhere (hi, Candy and MC!), but otherwise, it was a lovely, champagne-y evening with bondage, naked people, needles, and people getting pantsed. Of course, we had a lot of really gorgeously-gowned women and sharply-attired men, in addition to the naked people. I myself find the contras...

El BDSM es una de las prácticas sexuales denominadas “fetiches“, tal vez, más difundidas.Existen cultores en todas partes del mundo y también espacios especialmente diseñados para estas prácticas. Ahora Barcelona contará también con una propuesta especial para quienes aman el bondage y el sadomasoquismo. Se llama Fetish Café y es un lugar de lo más original. Entérate… (more…)

Rubbergirl is a talented Danish artist living in Copenhagen whose artwork is taking an increasingly fetishistic tone as she explores her fascination with latex and BDSM. In the past year, she has discovered new things about her fetish, and has begun to explore some of the feelings behind the fetish. Newer paintings have become much more graphic in style, with a strong emphasis on black and white. Earlier works focussed on her relationships and th...

Image exclusively emailed to me from Andrew Blake, from his new “Night Trips: a Dark Odyssey”. This is the image that didn’t make it into my Chronicle column’s gallery… For this week’s SF Chronicle column, I had the extreme honor of interviewing one of my all-time erotic filmmaking heroes, Andrew Blake. Not just an interview — I got to ask him *anything* I wanted, and to my stunned delight, he answered ev...

Image from this lush gallery. Slowly coming down — still — from the excitement of interviewing Andrew Blake, I thought I’d find some fresh galleries and videos he’s got behind closed doors to share with you. Here’s what I found — hope they help you stay warm, wherever you are (it’s *cold* here in SF): * Room 420 — eloquent bondage (gallery) * Leg Language: stunning short foot and breast fetish video...

I’m so pleased I found this little nest of quality hentai sites that aren’t creepy or pixelated and don’t charge a billion dollars a second; previously I posted some yuri (girl-girl) galleries, and now I found some other fun ones to share. These are all video (.wmv) pages with four videos apeice; for even more freebee images, click through and just take the free tour until you’ve had your fill. Most of these are of the bi...

Every family's got the jokester, the trickster, the kookie cousin who turns things upside down for fun. Guess what? We've got 'em too. Join AlwaysArousedGirl after the cut and see for yourself. These pranksters seem to ignore the fact that Santa's peeping over their shoulders. Or maybe they just don't care. In any case, the bloggers in this week's round-up of hard-on inducing stories have plenty of experience with holiday tricksters. They embrace...

Though we all want to impress our partners all year long in bed, now's the time that we start thinking about putting on our best behavior for Jolly Ol' Saint Nick as well. The bloggers in this week's selection of juicy sex-blog moments wonder how much they can get away with while still staying on Santa's good side. Will they get presents if they spent too much time masturbating? If they broke the toys the big guy brought last year? If they played...

A reminder: the bidding to buy me, Max, and Monk (although not all together) is still ongoing over at The Stranger holiday charity auction. The package is as follows:Bound to Please: The ultimate bundle for that kinky someone on your list! Includes two-hour lesson in rope bondage (or any other kind of BDSM you like) from Bondagelessons.com, $100 to spend at Twisted Monk on hemp bondage rope, a $50 to spend at kinky sex supply store the Crypt, and...

So I was reading a modest rant (title: The Horrors of Porn) over at The Twisted Monk (gentle reminder: order your fine bondage rope and shiny steel butt hooks YESTERDAY if you want them by Christmas, or I guess you could put it off until Wednesday if you’re the kind of person who walks along [...]

Book preview image from Beneath the Skin by Demetrius González. I’m trying not to be too gift-listy this year because I know we’re all broke, and the whole gift list thing is just so… done. However, I likely see and read more sex books than most people in the world. (Seen my bookshelves? Ever wonder why people leave my house with gift bags?) So I boiled my list down to ten recommends, and a bonus round of extras — plus, oh...

Fun Stuff To Do This Weekend!There's some good sexy stuff happening around town this weekend. First, on Saturday, it's PLAYDAY! What's that, you ask? Playday is a once-a-year event at Seattle's historic 1st Ave peep show, the Lusty Lady.What is a peep show? Is it like a strip club? No, it's a place where one stands in private booths and feed coins into a slot to watch sexy nude girls dance through a glass window. Remember that Madonna video, "Op...